🎤 Mic check
Before we start, let's make sure everything is working:
(click on the boxes to check them off)
Helpful tips:
🚫 Mute your microphone when you're not talking
← Type your answers in the grey boxes.
🤨 Questions? Problems? Feel free to speak up.
Once your boxes are checked, we'll get this party started. 🧨 For now, just sit back and relax!
🏡 Soulwindow
Each person in turn checks in by
- "Opening the Window" with your hands (do this however you want)
- Sharing what is going on inside right now (feelings, concerns, etc.)
- "Cleaning the window" by making a circular motion with your hands (everyone joins in)
- Optional: A question about how we can support/assist/undermine you today.
🎪 Demo (1)
😎 Guessing Game
Players take turns announcing one of the words they plugged into the sentences beneath, without saying which sentences they were completing. The others try to guess — is the person motivated by goals/fears, meeting expectations, setting expectations, or inspiration?
Complete at least one of these sentences. (non-value: 📈 Goals & Fears)
It pays off if people think of me as _______ (so that I reach my goal / avoid my fear). I push myself to be _______ (so that I reach my goal / avoid my fear).
Complete at least one of these sentences. (non-value: 💍 Meeting Expectations)
I want to be a good _______ (social role), so I have to be _______. People are used to me being _______, and I don't want to disappoint them. People will dislike or reject me unless I seem to be _______. In order to be a good person, I have to be _______.
Complete at least one of these sentences. (non-value: 🚔 Setting Expectations)
You specifically (or everyone) should be more _______, just like I am. All right-thinking people know they ought to be _______. As a _______ (social role), I need to show people how to be _______. The world would be a better place if only everyone were more (of a) _______.
Complete at least one of these sentences. (a value: 🌳 Inspiration)
Reflecting on my experience has taught me that a good life unfolds when I choose to be _______. My friend/mentor approaches things with _______, and inspires me to be that way, too. I deeply admire _______ (someone I know) because s/he is _______.
👺 Out of Character
Each player finds ways they are afraid of being seen. The group then agrees to support each other in trying on those »out of character« selves and reflecting on the experience.