Assessment #1
- you can clearly separate values from other motivations, and see when your values can (and cannot) come to the fore
- you have some facility at noticing which values your feelings point to
- you can communicate your values to others, so they can support you in what's meaningful
Discovery 1
āĀ Emotions Point to Values
Discovery 2
āĀ Ubiquitous Crowding Out
Discovery 3
āĀ Meaning & Attention
Skill 1
āĀ Emotions to Values
Skill 2
āĀ Sorting Values from Other Motives
Skill 3
āĀ Writing Values Clearly
Discoveries
Discovery 1
is that from every emotion you can harvest a value. This tends to change peopleās relationship to their feelings, and makes negative feelings, especially, much more exciting to have, because there's a straightforward way to learn from them.Discovery 2
is about how many opportunities we miss to live by our values each day, for various environmental and psychological reasons. Students who make this discovery will become acutely aware of when they are unnecessarily goal-directed or driven by othersā expectation, or when the circumstances are making the values theyād like to live by impossible. Seeing this in detail can be exciting, shocking, and embarrassing.Discovery 3
is about the close relationship betweenĀ meaning and attention. An experience of meaning always comes with an attentional policy.
Students whoāve made discovery 2
will see the fine structure of their lifeāwhere they can live by their values, and where not. They will be able to recount when their own psychological habits are leading them away from their values. They will be able to give many recent occasions where they were focused on preferences rather than values, on goals rather than values, on avoiding fears rather values, on living up to expectations rather than values, etc
Skills
Skill 1
is becoming quick and precise with naming the values in emotionsāso that you can name your feelings as they arise, and also name what theyāre telling you is important. For emotionally articulate students, this can be done after a day of practice.Skill 2
is skill at sorting out your values from the other types of motivations that guide you, andāwhen you are talking with someone elseāsorting their motivations in the same way.Skill 3
is about writing out these attentional policies so other people can understand whatās meaningful to you.
- To test
Discovery 1
andSkill 1
weāll ask you to name your feelings and find the values behind them. - To test
Discovery 2
, weāll ask for this fine-grained structure ā how are you most often crowded out? You should be able to describe hundreds of times a day. - To test
Skill 2
, we ask you to sort a list of potential āvaluesā ā to say which are real values and which are goals, expectations, etc. And weāll ask you to sort your own motivations the same way. - To test
skill 3
anddiscovery 3
, we will ask you to describe values precisely, as attentional policies.
You can self assess with this worksheet Emotions to Values Practice
You can self-asses with this work sheet Crowding Out Task
You can practice honing your sorting skills with Sorting Values Task
If you need these discoveries, the exercises and readings in Chapter 1. Telling Values Apart from Other Things (Previous) and Chapter 2. Finding Evidence of Values (Previous) will help. Specifically, focus on Emotions to Values and Crowding Out / Meaning Analysis.
Read Chapter 3. Emotions to Values and Chapter 1. Crowding Out
Chapter 3 covers attention and meaning. You can also try making your own values cards at meaning.supplies, and doing a careful reading of Making Values Concrete.